As strong as your initial attraction may be, there is not necessarily any need to set aside special time to hang out with her just yet. After all, you’ve only just met and you don’t want to her to think you have nothing but time on your hands. What you do want her to think is that you are a quality guy with a lot going on in his life.
By inviting her to an activity you had already planned on attending you forego planning & paying for an elaborate date and start getting to know her in a more comfortable atmosphere.
When inviting her, do so in such a way that’s says “I will be doing this activity anyway, but we will have a lot of fun if you come along with me”. Instead of setting aside special time for just the two of you, you are inviting her to come along and be part of your life.
This alleviates much unneeded pressure and if she is unable to attend it’s not big deal and you haven’t wasted any time.
By inviting her to an activity you had already planned on attending you forego planning & paying for an elaborate date and start getting to know her in a more comfortable atmosphere.
When inviting her, do so in such a way that’s says “I will be doing this activity anyway, but we will have a lot of fun if you come along with me”. Instead of setting aside special time for just the two of you, you are inviting her to come along and be part of your life.
This alleviates much unneeded pressure and if she is unable to attend it’s not big deal and you haven’t wasted any time.
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