If you have had your eyes on someone special for a while and want to know how to get the girl, the first thing you need to do is get her to realize you exist. If you're not yet on her radar, you're in luck. We're going to help you, with some time-tested tips that will definitely bring you to her attention. Once she's spotted you, there's a whole lot of other steps to take to get things to the next level, but that's for another post. First things first. Here's what you need to do to get her to stand up and take notice.
1. Dress better than you usually do. You've heard you need to "dress to impress" for job interviews. Well, look at getting a girl's attention as a job interview for love. You want her to think of you as a suave James Bond come to rescue her, not a pseudo-hippy stoner come to make a mess in her house and spend all her money. Be sure to only wear your snazziest clothes when you know you're going to see her. Get a copy of GQ magazine if you need help understanding what a smartly dressed man looks like. Keep accessories to a minimum, with only one or two tasteful items at a time. Style your hair, put on a nice cologne, and wash your face, and she'll notice when you walk in the door.
2. Use humor to get her attention. Women love men who make them laugh, and will remember them. Laughter will also make her feel more comfortable with you. If you want to learn how to get the girl, humor is essential. So, if you don't know any jokes, learn a few good, clean ones in advance. If humor comes naturally to you, all the better. The point is to keep her laughing, so you'll create more of an impression in her mind.
3. Notice the details. If you want to know how to get the girl, this is very important. Pay attention to the small details she gives you about herself, such as her favorite food, her favorite band, the place she grew up, and where she went to high school. This information will help you make future dates with her more special. Even better (for you), girls love it when guys notice the tiny details about them and act on those details. Taking the time to remember things about her will show her you care and will make her remember you in the future. This remembrance will make her much more likely to go out with you when you make your first move in that direction.
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